Looking for a long distance relationship test that will tell you if your relationship is working? There’s no actual test that anyone needs to take. Instead, you’ll want to pay attention to the details. What do I mean by this? Watch the video below and then, more importantly, continue to read the text below it. What you’ll learn will tell you what you need to know not only about your partner, but about yourself.

The concept of interrelatedness is important to understand. All successful long term relationships are built on it, long distance or otherwise. So if you’re wondering if absence really makes the heart grow fonder or if it is just an opportunity to cheat, ask yourself these important questions and you’ll have the only long distance relationship test that you will ever need:

• Does my partner listen to the details of my life and express concern  or interest during our conversation and then again later on? For instance, if you went out for dinner and ate bad shrimp and were up all night hugging the toilet, when you tell your partner about it, does he just remark, “Hm,” or does he become actively engaged in the details of what happened. For instance, does he ask you if there’s anything he can do to make it better? Send you a get well text? Encourage you to go to the doctor to make sure you don’t have a parasite? Does he ask about how you’re doing the next day?

The best long distance relationship test is interest. A guy who just wants a girl for the sex is not really interested in her and in the small details and daily struggles in her life. A guy who wants a relationship is interested in these details. See the difference?

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