Long Distance Intimacy Advice – Some Sexy Things to Do Together While Apart
Looking for long distance intimacy advice? It’s so important to keep things hot and steamy despite the miles. Knowing that you’re connected with your partner intimately and in particular, sexually, will help keep jealousy at bay. After all, if your partner is satisfied and happy, why would he or she stray?
When you’re talking about intimacy, there are three Ds considered to be the biggest downers to a long distance relationship: doubt, dissatisfaction, and dullness. Physical distance (yet another big D) amplifies the risks of a break up. Don’t worry though because there are fun ways for partners who are geographically apart to still be intimate and keep their relationship hot. Most of these tips come from real-life couples who are currently (or have been) in LDRs. A little bit of sensual creativity goes a long way in keeping a long distance relationship strong.
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Long distance intimacy advice
Schedule intimate web cam dates. Web cams have gotten a somewhat sleazy reputation because of the dime-a-dozen cam sites geared for voyeurs. However, you can make the web cam and real-time technology work for you and your long distance love’s advantage. Schedule dates when you can be all naughty and sexy in front of the cam, preferably when you are both relaxed, not distracted, and have uninterrupted time (if circumstances allow it, you can also be spontaneous with your web cam dates for extra fun). You can have dress-up themes and even hold virtual romantic dinners using the web cam. Let your imagination fly and allow technology to bridge the intimacy gap in your long distance relationship.
- Send articles of clothing that you have worn (intimate and otherwise). Scent is one of the most potent human senses. It is responsible for attraction and triggers emotions and memories. Having your long distance lover’s shirt or another article of clothing can make you feel as if they are sharing the same space with you. I’ll never forget when I went to Japan and Hong Kong for two weeks. I wore a t-shirt to sleep each night that my then-boyfriend had worn for a good 3 days before I left. The musk of him lingered for almost the entire trip.The act of sending your lover a garment that you have worn, with your scent on it, is perhaps one of the most intimate things you can do for each other. The gesture can be sentimental, or suggestive. This is a nervy little gesture, so make sure your package is properly addressed, especially when you’re sending panties in the mail.
- Write each other naughty email messages or handwritten notes, or leave a sexy voice mail. Bring up the intimacy a notch in your long distance relationship with erotic email messages, letters, or sexy voice mail. Again, timing is everything. Long distance relationships may find couples living in opposite time zones, so there’s a big chance that a sensual voice message can end up awakening your partner in the middle of the night. Time it in such a way as to pleasantly surprise them, such as right before they go to work, or before they usually go to bed.
- Start an erotic story centering on your relationship and send them back and forth with new installments each time. Add a touch of creativity to your intimacy by sending each other a piece of an erotic story. This can help you learn more about each others’ sensual sides and revel in them even when you cannot be physically together. It can also give you an idea of how to pleasure each other during your next rendezvous.
The easiest thing you and your partner can do to still feel intimate in a long distance relationship is to take advantage of the real-time connectedness that modern technology brings. The Internet, web cams, headsets with microphones, and other gadgets geared towards effective communication can all play significant parts in keeping your love burning and your bond withstand the test of time.
Copyright © 2011 by Laura Ramirez. All rights reserved.
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